We have had some interesting experiences on
this trip with scams and people trying to take advantage of us.
The first was in Chicago. We were at the
Ogilvie Transportation Centre with Susannah and sitting on a bench waiting for
Sharon. Two benches were back to back and a young woman started talking on a
mobile phone behind us. We couldn’t help but overhear her story and it was well
articulated. She had found a job but needed to go for training. She’d found a
baby sitter for her children but had dropped her purse somewhere and couldn’t
retrieve it immediately. She needed $15 – 20 to get to where she was going for
the training and she was asking a friend to help pay for her ticket. The train
was leaving soon. If she couldn’t do the training she wouldn’t get the job. She
rang 2 or 3 people but there were logistic difficulties.
She spoke to Susannah briefly and kindly but
did not ask us for anything directly. Bob and I discussed it quietly and
decided it was indeed a sad case and we gave her $20. She took the money and
said “Oh my God” and took off very quickly and not in the direction of the
ticket office! It then occurred to us that we’d been scammed in quite a slick
way and this was confirmed by people that we spoke to later about types of
scams.
The first day we were in Paris we were on
the metro and sat down on seats on the platform while waiting for the next
train. Most seats are individual with a space between them on the platform but this
was a bench type. A man dressed in black trousers and a white business shirt,
carrying a briefcase and looking like a professional, sat down beside Bob. Bob
had his travel trousers on with his IPhone
from Australia and his French phone in the pocket. Bob has been keeping his
Australian phone handy to take the occasional business calls that he has been
receiving. The man put his briefcase on his knee – as a cover up we now know -and
Bob felt him putting his hand down and feeling his pocket. The train was coming
and Bob stood up. The man also stood up very close to Bob. Bob felt him trying
to open the zip on his trousers. Bob moved away and glared at him whereupon the
man moved away quickly.
The zip has a flap on it and is thankfully
not easy to open quickly or subtlety. Don’t tell anyone but he now keeps his
valuables in another pocket which also has a flap and the zip tag broken off so
it would be quite hard to pick pocket.
Another day we were walking along a street in
Paris near the river where there are some nice shops and not too far from the
Ritz Hotel. Bob saw a gold ring on the ground and bent down to pick it up.
Simultaneously a young woman also bent down and picked up the ring. She held it
in her hands and spoke in a mixture of French and English that we could
understand quite well. She said someone must have dropped the ring – and look
it had a 28 carat gold stamp on the inside. She pressed it into Bob’s hand and
said he should keep it and it was his luck. She was “evangelistic” and didn’t
wear jewelry. Bob took the ring and said we wouldn’t keep it but would hand it
in somewhere where maybe the owner would find it. She didn’t like this idea and
again tried to give it to Bob as a gift. He again refused.
Then she started to
ask for money saying she hadn’t eaten for 2 days etc. She was simply but very
well dressed and had a very sweet honest looking face. I was taken in and
suggested to Bob that we give her 1 or 2 Euro. He had become suspicious and
refused so I left him to deal with it and walked off. He had realised that the
ring was very light and probably a fake. Bob refused her pleading again and she
grabbed the ring and walked off.
Now we find out that this is one of the
oldest scams in the book and is even mentioned in Dickens. I guess a lot of
people want the ring and fall for it or they wouldn’t keep doing it. I found it
most upsetting that she appeared to have such an open sweet face. I pride
myself on being able to read people quite well but I was well and truly taken
in. I felt quite affected by it for a day or two.
Another scam we encountered in Paris many
times and knew about beforehand, was young people who approach you at metro
stations and where there are crowds. They have a clipboard and put their hands
over their lips to signal that they’re deaf and dumb. The paper on the clipboard
has the name of a charity that they’re supposedly collecting for and the names
of people from various countries who have given already that day. We’re told
when you give them money e.g. 2 Euros they hold up a sign saying – minimum 6
Euros.
Now if every young person that we saw doing
this was really deaf and dumb there’s a huge epidemic out there and something
should be done! However they didn’t look quite that deaf and dumb when you saw
them, from a distance, talking to each other. They were not aggressive in any
way and moved off when we ignored them. It got to the “here we go again” stage
when we saw them coming.
After a while we got to know when these
groups were around the Abbesses metro that was closest to us. They seemed to be
in groups with a man playing an accordion and busking, an older lady begging
and young people with clipboards doing the deaf and dumb routine.
One day we got on the metro and a group of
people were talking in English and we listened in. Apparently a group of young
people had been on the train before we got on. They had created a bit of a
commotion and crowded around a group. They jumped off just before the doors
closed at a stop. An elderly lady who was a tourist from India or Sri Lanka,
I’m guessing, had discovered her handbag zip was open and her wallet gone. This
is a common trick we’re told. A group create a distraction and then they jump
off the train at the last minute before it closes making it impossible to chase
them.
We were told to be very careful following pickpockets and tackling them
physically in any way. They usually work in groups and pass things on quickly
so you could be held up for assault very easily and have no proof of what
they’d done.
I was not targeted for pick pocketing which was statistically unlikely anyway. Maybe it was luck or maybe because I’m carrying a bag with clips over the zip. It is
also quite deep and I don’t always locate my wallet in it easily. It has occurred
to me at times would a pickpocket be able to find my wallet quicker than I can!
Another common trick we were warned about
is some younger person spilling a coffee or other liquid on you and then an
older women appearing and admonishing the younger person loudly while they try
to help clean you up and pick your pockets at the same time. If this happens
the advice is to keep walking and refuse assistance to clean up.
The way to avoid these scams we’re told is
to not look like the most vulnerable people out there
- be aware and alert in crowds and on the
metro
-
never admit that you speak
English if asked in a group situation as you may be targeted or asked for money
-
stand away from train doors on
the metro when possible and at least have your bag or valuables somewhat
protected e.g. by standing against a wall with them behind you
- don’t stop if approached by
anyone who wants you to sign something or has found something or spills
something etc.
-
Many advise having a money belt
but we didn’t do this or find it necessary
Pick pocketing has become much more rife in
Paris in recent years. The staff at the Louvre went on strike in April this
year because of the number of visitors and staff that were being targeted
there. Also the staff were facing aggression from the younger people as they
tried to pick pocket tourists. As a result the number of uniformed officers and
surveillance cameras has been increased around Paris by several fold.
This is a difficult topic to write about.
Most of the scams in Paris are carried out by gypsies from Romania and
Bulgaria. Apparently it is almost impossible to detain youngsters under 18 in
France so even if arrested it’s not easy to deal with them and they’re back on
the streets very soon. The heads of these gangs are not nearby and the
youngsters are under duress to perform and get certain targets in a day. They
have been brought up to believe that this is an honorable profession and are
victims themselves.
France has deported many of them and faced
criticism of racism for doing so. They have recently announced moves to make it
easier for them to work in France which is difficult at present.
It appears that it’s not an easily solvable
situation – a bit like Australia’s boat people I wonder. Gypsies have been a
marginalized group in society for many generations and are victims themselves
so it’s easy to feel sympathy for them. They were targeted, along with Jews,
for extermination by the Third Reich.
I certainly do not claim to be an expert in
this area. I know enough to know it’s a very complex issue.
Bottom line for us was that we learnt to be
more cautious in Paris than we would normally be and this was a good lesson for
us. It did affect the enjoyment of our visit initially a little when we
realised how prevalent the problem was. By taking sensible measures and getting
used to them over time it became part of our normal behavior – as it is for
Parisians. It’s certainly not like they’re on every corner waiting to “get” you.
We never felt physically threatened in any way. Would it stop us visiting Paris
again? – Absolutely not.
Of course Paris is not the only place in
Europe that this occurs. I remember seeing lots of gypsies in Florence years
ago and believe that it is not such an issue now there although it still does
exist.
The thing that was hardest for me is that I
like to trust people until they prove otherwise – a very Australasian attitude
I think. Mainly this serves me well and will in the future again I’m sure. However
that had to be put aside in this situation.
2 comments:
Hi Judy, this was a great info and I am so glad that you were lucky as to not get scammed too much.
I am also glad that when we were in Paris last year, no scammers targeted me.
And concerning the gypsies, they have a horrible reputation and nobody likes them for a good reason. I am not surprised that most people hate them.
Only maybe 1% of them are normal polite gypsies and the remaining 99% are all bad. So, no wonder people in Europe despise them quite rightly so.
Btw. Your blog is wonderful.:)
Kate (katka)
Thanks for your comments Katka. I know your experience has been different to mine. I prefer to think of how individuals behave rather than a race as a whole though.
Also it has not only been gypsies that have tried to scam us this trip so I'm reluctant to generalise.
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